Life or Death Crisis, but Remaining in His Love

Hope to be able to write tomorrow. Today got phone call and told of crisis situation with a family member so went immediately to hospital.  Home now, but will say that just a few days ago had mentioned to guests that I couldn't think of anything that would up-end or rattle remaining in His love.  And this was certainly a test...and a testament to the actuality of remaining in His love and the power and strength of His love: REMAINING.  His love is steadfast, and there is joy even in crises and tears, and healing now for the loved one survived although has quite a journey ahead.  But a good one, for she had wanted to learn more about remaining in His love before calamity struck.

Was able to mention to a couple family members, and just brief explaining of praying, remaining in His love, gave them strength, hope, and now desire to remain in His love.

Again, we are finding this is not a perspective, not a way of thinking.  It is an actuality, a living, eternal gift given by Christ, available for us in every present moment!  There is only goodness and mercy all the days of our lives...eternally...remaining in His love.

The Nine S': Stability

In the Order of the Present Moment, we consider the standard of our formation, the Nine S'.  Stability is formative to our bodies, minds, hearts and spirits for our souls must be firmly fixed in Christ, every present moment.  Stability in a person is the state of being sane and sensible, of not being easily upset or disturbed.  When we apply the definition of stability to our spiritual lives, we realize the necessity of not giving way or being overturned.

We stand firm in Christ in all levels and degrees, temporally and spiritually.  Of the Holy Spirit's gifts, we call upon temperance and fortitude especially to assist us.  Of course, if we have learned to remain in Christ's love, we develop a stability based upon the unfolding graces of being in His love.  At the same time, we recognize the seemingly constant challenges from the temporal and spiritual realms in the form of physical, mental, emotional and spiritual trials.  

Temperance (self-restraint, moderation) applies at all levels, and the degree to which we strive requires consistent courage against not only giving way to temptations but also in patient endurance in suffering.  Fortitude (courage) strengthens our perseverance. Remain steadfast within Christ's love and obey His command.

We have mentioned the importance of specializing in the spiritual life as opposed to being a generalist in various areas and interests.  Remaining fixed in Christ's love and His command, the Gospel Rule of Life (which is the root of all rules), allows the soul to withstand any temporal or spiritual disturbance.

Consider the course of one day of life on earth and the various possibilities of unexpected trials.  Consider loss of life or health (mental, physical) of self, family member or friend. Factor the loss of career, home, transportation, income, credit, land, food, heat, water, or other earthly possessions.  Ponder the disturbance we may experience when we simply do not get our way in a discussion or relationship!  None of us are exempt from temporal and spiritual upsets...unless we learn to  remain fixed in the stability of Christ's love.

And how can this be?  Can we truly have immunity from the trials of this world?  Yes, in His love we can, for He has overcome the world.  Of course, we will be amidst trials and tribulations, temptations and assaults temporal and spiritual.  Yet we need not succumb.  Or if we do waver or sway, or even start to sink, we call out, Lord, save me!  Jesus will stretch out His hand and catch us, and say to us, O you of little faith, why did you doubt? 

Stability of our bodies, minds and emotions is somewhat within our ability to buttress.  Eat properly, rest appropriately, exercise, work, play, smile; laugh and weep on occasion.  Yet the ability to be immune from the instability wrought by the fluctuations of the world and the consequences of sin (yes, our sins, too) is to courageously remain in Christ's love and obey His command to love others as He loves us.  

"What will separate us from the love of Christ? Will anguish, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or the sword?...No, in all these things we conquer overwhelmingly through him who loved us."

Among many options in choosing and forming stability, we know to receive frequently His love in the Sacraments of his Church, to be fed His Body and Blood, to repent and be absolved of our sins.  Dwell in Scripture.  We know to love remaining in His love wherein we remain in His will and His truth.  We love God and others within His love, and trust in faith that in Him the vacillations of the world will be calmed, for our souls dwell in the stability of Christ's infinite love, will and truth.

Dear members of Christ's Body, the Church,     do you see?  The stability that forms us is Christ's love.  Of course our bodies, minds, and emotions experience earthly upsets, and we will be tempted to sin, even falter or fall.  But the concern of the flesh is death, and the concern of the spirit is life and peace.  Let our souls steadfastly remain in His love, and stability in the Spirit of truth will alter our experience of the forces of the world.  Stability in Christ's love allowed the martyrs to sing through torture and to their deaths.  What about us?

The Nine S': Simplicity

Simplicity is rooted from simplicitas.  We are referred to simplex, which at root means single.  Simplicity encompasses what a single unit is or can do, which makes understanding or action easy, natural, uncomplicated.  Ponder simplicity. The aspect of the single unit assists in relating simplicity to forming our souls.

We have but one soul, one life, one mom, one dad, one body, one brain, one heart, one childhood, one adulthood, one birth, one death, one judgment.  We have one God in Three Persons, one Father, one Son, one Holy Spirit.  We have one Blessed Virgin Mary, one guardian angel, one Bible, one Body of Christ, one Church. There is one Lord, one faith, one baptism, and one God who is Father of all, over all, through all and within all. We have one actual moment as we live, now, moment by moment.

When these single units are considered, simplicity takes a turn, for society says there is safety in numbers.  We tend to feel secure with more, not less.  However, we cherish most that which is single, rare, irreplaceable.  So in our spiritual lives, we must learn to cherish simplicity, that which is least is greatest.  Love the one-of-a-kind.


In the secular world, it is said that one who is a "specialist" is more successful than one who is a "generalist".  It has to do with focus as well as specific knowledge and ability in one area of knowledge or expertise. So it is in the spiritual life.  How much more do we desire spiritual success, oneness in Christ?

If we strive to live in Christ in the present moment, to seek, find, and climb the stairway to heaven, we certainly need a strong focus as well as specific knowledge and ability in the spiritual life.  We must simplify our desires and distractions, as tending a  garden, removing that which hinders while providing all that ensures healthy growth. What do we desire for our one life in all eternity? 

So we assess and remove that which hinders us from our sole desire: union with Christ.  We then assess, learn and enact that which assists our desire to be one in Christ.  We may find that simplicity is learned and enacted in correlation with our awareness of that which complicates our temporal and spiritual lives.  A short-cut is to go directly to the interior to ponder, pray, and perceive.  Ask Jesus to help us come to simplicity.  

Soon we will know not so much what to eliminate from our inner and outer lives, but more what spiritual goods He wants us to focus upon.  When we focus upon the spiritual, such as to remain in His love, the interior and exterior distractions easily, naturally, understandably fall by the wayside. Previous strong desires will not hold us hostage, for we will find we lose interest in that which is not Christ.

For most of us, simplicity takes root gradually.  The process may be subtle, with only occasional bursts of visible or known simplification.  But by focusing on Christ, desiring to remain in His love in every present moment, the losses of temporal items, traits, habits, attachments and dislikes most readily fall by the wayside, according to His will and pleasure.  

For it is His pleasure that becomes our pleasure, to come to simplicity through various means both temporal and spiritual.  Whether we first detect the detachment from earthly things, or begin to comprehend the unfolding of a holy indifference, does not matter.  What is key in the standard of simplicity is that our lives become focused on Christ: His love, His will, His Church.  Within Christ, all else will be given us when, how, and where for we have need.

Just as St. Paul lists all the virtues, he says the greatest of these is love.  Jesus tells us to remain in His love by believing in Him and obeying His command to love one another as He loves us.  Perhaps we are seeing the ultimate simplicity is God.  Since God is love, love God.


Simplicity at its single-most valued, rare, holy, ultimate unit is God's love, love of God.  From this point, consider branches emanating from love of the Trinity to love of Mary, angels and saints in heaven, love of souls in purgatory, love of the living Body of Christ, love of Scripture, love of the Sacraments, love of the Church, love of family, love of friends, love of enemies, love of truth, beauty, goodness.  

 Love remaining in Christ's love, love virtues, love creatures in God's creation, love salvation of souls, love salvific suffering, love union with Christ in His life, suffering, passion and resurrection.  Love simplicity of life with, through and in Christ.  Simplicity flows naturally when one remains in His omnipotent, omniscient, omnipresent love. 

The Nine S': Selflessness

As standards of formation, suffering and selflessness are in pinnacle positions among the Nine S': silence, solitude, slowness, suffering, selflessness, simplicity, stability, stillness and serenity.  In the spiritual life a pinnacle is union with Christ. 

Galatians 2:20 is a key Scripture for realizing the death of self, and suffering, as we have discussed in the previous post, is part and parcel of picking up our cross daily and following Christ. I have been crucified with Christ, yet I live, no longer I, but Christ lives in me, insofar as I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God who has loved me and given himself up for me.

In order to become one with Christ, we must experience what Jesus experienced on earth because unlike cannot unite.  By becoming as Christ through living in Him in the present moments, we will die to what we are and have been.  We will become as Christ by faith in Him who loves us and "gives himself up" for us.  Two cannot unite unless one becomes like and as the other.

Suffering is one way in which we become as Christ.  We die to self.  We become crucified with Christ.  But the grace inherent in suffering through, with and in Christ is selflessness.  In order to be as Christ, for divine union to be possible in Christ-likeness, we must come to a purity of selflessness.  What is it to be selfless?  We become concerned more with the needs and wishes of others than for ourselves.  Who are the others of our concern?  God and our fellow man.

Jesus gave us the greatest command: love God above all things and love others.  We are to be more concerned with the needs and desires of God the Father, Christ the Son, and the Holy Spirit than our own needs and wishes.  We must hear and know God's will and do it.  Our need must be His need and desire, and He tells us that He wants to love us and for us to love Him.  Remain in My love.  Jesus wants us to unite in Him, become one with Him, by remaining in His love.

When we remain in His love, we learn to love.  We learn love by partaking in holy suffering.  Holy suffering is that which God allows and offers without our having to go seeking suffering, or creating means of suffering.  A holy cross is one given by God, through His allowance in natural means such as illness, accidents, and consequences of sins.  There is no need to act in ways to make ourselves suffer.  God provides us with all that we need in order to be crucified in Christ, through natural sufferings, that I call holy sufferings.  These are sufferings born well for the love of God and souls.

When we remain in His love, we learn selflessness.  We learn selflessness by learning to love as Christ loves, as we experience His love while remaining in His love.  In this embrace of holy love, we experience this divine love enough to desire to love God and others with Christ-love.  Remain in His love, and Christ's love will permeate our bodies, minds, hearts and souls.  Selflessness is generated in Christ's loving absorption of our beings.  Incrementally we grow in holiness by love, in Christ, in His love. 

God is love, and His will for us is to love.  We live yet no longer ourselves, but Christ lives in us and we in Him.  Remaining in His love ensures selflessness, for in Christ we do the will of His Father: Love God and others. To grow in selflessness, is to learn and practice remaining in Christ's love.  We may begin now.  Remain in His love by living in Jesus Christ who loves us and gives himself up for us.  No longer us who live but Christ living in us, and by faith, us living in Christ, we will love and do likewise, as our Beloved. 

These matters can be actualized in our moment by moment temporal existence, as we live in the flesh,  in faith we live in Christ.  Learning to remain in His love will be one and many steps on the stairway to heaven.  Practice remaining in Christ's love.  Practice with acts of faith.  Will to accept with gratitude, suffering.  In His love we learn love of suffering and pure selflessness.  In Him, in His love, we will learn and receive His love, and in Him, to be love.